Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Desi wife catches cheating husband

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Does your room stink?

There is no bigger turn off for a woman to inhale some rotten smell when you open the door to your house to welcome her. Now I know I am not your mommy and I shouldn't be talking about your hygiene and living situation but guys it is absolutely important that you have a clean and nice place.

Some time back I ended up going to a students house (this is before I started coaching professionally). As soon as he opened the door I felt nauseous. I wanted to throw up the smell was that bad. I step in and the first thing I see is his desktop screen saver with porn images on it. That did it for me. I usually am very polite and don't like to tell people on how they should live but I had to tell this guy and of course he did not appreciate that for I was not his coach.

He told me that he was expecting a girl in few hours. For her sake I hope she really flaked on this guy. Now I am not trying to put him down but I am making a point here. If I had such a bad impression as a csual visitor think how the woman would feel living in this place and having sex with the guy who owns this place.

Your room gives a very strong impression about you. This is where the woman starts to picture her in the long run with you. If she finds smelly trash, disorganized closets, bed sheets with stains on them and mould smell coming from your bathroom I don't need to tell you the thoughts that will go through her mind.

I am not suggesting to have fancy decor in your room but being unhygienic is no excuse. Your room should always look nice and smell good especially if you are going to have a woman over. Open the windows and let some fresh air come in. Expose your sheets and bedding to some sun light. There are studies that claim bedding's and covers are home to bacteria and they should be exposed to sunlight or put in dryer often to avoid allergies.

Vacuum the floor, wash keep the dishes away. This will put you in a good mood as well. Your environment has a direct effect on your thoughts and behavior. So do yourself a favor and live in a good environment. I have never had a woman come to my room and not compliment me. Even when I lived in dorm and had $30 to decorate my room. I bought some printed bed sheet and turned them into window drapes. Had nice clean bed and every thing was sitting in it's place. Every girl who came to my room told me they have never seen a guy keep their room this nice.

It never hurts to have a class. It leaves women with a strong impression of you. You come across as a guy who lives in style. If you get creative like I did, using bed sheet as drapes, they see you as a creative and a go getter. Remember your room discloses your identity. Make sure it is a good one. All you need to do is spend $50-60 to get some candles and other decorative material if you do not already have them. But use a little creativity and you may not even have to spend them.

Feel free to ask me or your friends questions about your room. It is also a good excuse to invite that girl to your room so she can help you decorate or take her to shop some decoratives for your room. I often ask women at stores to help me buy stuff.