Want to succeed---Get the right attitude from Quick.

Once in a while you meet someone who really challenges you. Not only does he challenge you but he also inspires you with his dedication and passion to succeed. I love the Rocky series with Sylvester Stallone. What I like the most about his character is his resilience. He is determined to win. he never gives up no matter how hard things get. In Rocky IV he explains to his son that there are times when he wants to give up inside boxing ring but keeps going one more round. He says it it that one more round that makes all the difference.

This is very true. In my personal experience and from what I have observed, one has to be resilient and determined to succeed. My student this past weekend was that resilient and determined student. Now I openly claim that my sessions are not easy. They are not for faint hearts but for brave hearts but no one have I ever pushed as far as I pushed this student. If I were to speak in terms of movie Rocky he was Apollo taking the beating from Drago. But he was almost like Rocky. He wanted to succeed so bad that he kept fighting and did not give up.

His desire to put through my intensive boot camp to succeed actually inspired me. I have gotten a little too busy lately and have been feeling a bit overwhelmed. This morning when I woke up I felt very energized. This is because my student ended up reminding me what I teach: If I want to be successful I have to be resilient and persist. That success does not come by itself you have to earn it with your hard work.

This student of mine goes by the name "Quick". I hope we all can learn and inspire ourselves from his winning attitude. He may not be a winner yet in the material sense but he already has a winning attitude. I am willing to bet every penny I will earn in my life that one day this guy will make something out of himself.

I was so impressed with his resilience that I wanted to share it with you all. I want you all to know that if you want to succeed with women you need to be dedicated, persistent and resilient like Quick. If you do that I guarantee you success in every field be it picking up women or making million dollars.

So write down your goals and persist them with dedication being resilient to obstacles and watch what happens.

Thanks Quick for reminding me what I need to do to succeed!

Good Luck!

Do You Persist With Passion?

Do you persist with passion or have you become an entertainer? Generally speaking your approach will not lead to any success if you do not persist and show passion. Students who have been in the community for some time have unfortunately developed some bad habits. Not showing passion or lack of persistence is definitely among them.

Many students have been taught that persisting and showing passion is a sign of neediness. They have been told that they should demonstrate a non caring attitude. I do not agree that passion and persistence is neediness. A confident guy can be passionate and persistent. Watch any movie which depicts the story of medieval time. You will notice that the prince or the lead would be passionate and persistent yet non needy. Few names that comes to my mind are "The First Knight" and "Shakespeare in Love". Watch the performance of Richard Gere and Joseph Fiennes in these movies. You will witness passionate and persistent characters who are non needy.

Being passionate is a wonderful quality. There is a reason why 11 out of 10 movies have passion in them. And guys who do not persist actually come across as insecure as oppose to confidant. So a woman says she does not like you touching her and you leave or she says she has a boyfriend and you leave shows you do not care in a wrong way.

8 out of 10 girls I have dated in the past were in a relationship when I met them. It did not bother me that they were seeing someone else and it did not stop me from persisting. In my mind I thought: "I am attracted to you. I will do what it takes to make you mine and you will not let it happen if you don't want it to happen. But you having a boyfriend is not my problem and I will persist."

Now remember there is a difference between persistence and stalking. I wouldn't start stalking her or embarrass her under the pretext of persistence. This is a topic in itself and some day I will blog about the differences between persistence and neediness/stalking.

The thing that I want you to take from this post is that stop being the entertainer. Yes it is good to have fun and laughter but also be serious. reveal your agenda to get her and then push things to make it happen. There is no shame in wanting a woman. You are only paying her compliments with this behavior. Just make sure not to make her feel embarrassingly uncomfortable. If you do this she will see a man in you even if she does not sleep with you. You will notice her flirting with you will never end. She will get turned on every time she sees you. And she will thank you for making her feel like a woman, for making her feel desirable and for paying her compliments.

So many times it is simply your persistence that will get the girl. So don't be afraid to persist with passion and stop being the entertainer.

Good Luck!

Do You Have An End Goal?

Over and Over I see students getting lost in elements of the game. They are so focused on practicing and delivering particular elements of the game that they forget to set an end goal or to pursue one.

Very often I will notice a student who will approach a woman and deliver his opener or routine or whatever else he had in his mind then bail out. When you ask them what happened some will relay happiness that they delivered their element and others will claim they did not know what to do do next. After following this routine they start to get frustrated that their approaches do not go anywhere. As a consequence they end up buying new products or routines hoping that will change things for them which usually does not.

The problem here is not lack or routine but incorrect end goal. When you go out to meet a woman your end goal has to be more than delivering an opener or a routine. You end goal can be anything from getting a date to pulling her home but not delivering an opener or a routine.

I know one of you who is a real beginner is thinking but I am not even comfortable with opener so why should I go to the next step with mastering my opening. Very simple because you have already opened this girl or set of girls. Why would you walk away from her and open another girl when you can continue with her. You might do this because you fear you are not ready or because you do not feel confident.

You feel scared or not confident because you have not thought the process in advance. If you would have set your end goal to pull the girl home or get a date then you would have drawn a road map for all the steps needed. Then you would know exactly which direction to go after delivering your intended element. And who knows you might get a date out of your first set even if you have never opened a girl before. Why would you let it go? Who says you can't go on a date if you have not mastered the art of seduction.

When you go out next time to practice your intended element of the game push the set to the end goal after you have delivered your routine or whatever element you had in mind. Draw a road map from meeting a woman to reaching your end goal of getting her on a date or pulling her home. Please Please Please read the Social Mastery Book. I have laid all the steps and amazing techniques to accomplish what you want. 226 Pages and over three hours of video - That's a lot of information. You would never need any other product to learn how to attract women. Identify the steps of game from there, learn specific techniques then go out and push sets to the end.

Two things will happen either you will get your end goal or identify the area you need to work on to achieve your end goal.

Good Luck!

Do you pick a target?

Very often I observe that guys going into sets without selecting a target. Any girl who responds to them becomes their target. This is a horrible thing to do.

Most of the times it is the least attractive girl who ends up responding. By least attractive I do not mean just physical attractiveness. I mean least attractive by your standards whatever they may be. You then continue the set with her and wonder how you always end up with an average or a below average girl. She was not your type but you still continued that is why. The reason you hesitate to pick a target in advance is because you are not sure if the really hot one is going to talk to you and you do not want to get rejected.

By following this practice you are creating lot more problems for yourself:

• You are increasing your insecurity by telling yourself that the hot girl won't like you. If you really believe this, it is an inner game issue. Work on it. Make your self desirable. Dating and attracting women is an art. It is a skill. Just like you can earn a black belt with practice, you can learn to attract beautiful women with practice. However you have to be willing to get few bruises on the way.


• By settling for a less attractive woman or by compromising your standards you are hurting both yourself and the woman you end up spending time with. You know she is not your type and even if you get in a relation with her it won't go anywhere because you do not like her. So why waste your and her time. Now I am not suggesting to objectify women but don't be with her if you are really not that attracted to her.
  

Go and practice on the ones you really like. Don't be afraid to get rejected. Pay attention to your mistakes. Learn to calibrate and generate sexual tension. Master the steps of seduction from Social Mastery Book and put them to test. Practicing on the kind of girls you are attracted to is the only way you will improve.

Next time you go out you make sure you pick a target and run the attraction on her without any fear. Best case you will end up with her worst case you will master the skills to attract her kind down the road.