Thursday, February 5, 2009

Do You Have An End Goal?

Over and Over I see students getting lost in elements of the game. They are so focused on practicing and delivering particular elements of the game that they forget to set an end goal or to pursue one.

Very often I will notice a student who will approach a woman and deliver his opener or routine or whatever else he had in his mind then bail out. When you ask them what happened some will relay happiness that they delivered their element and others will claim they did not know what to do do next. After following this routine they start to get frustrated that their approaches do not go anywhere. As a consequence they end up buying new products or routines hoping that will change things for them which usually does not.

The problem here is not lack or routine but incorrect end goal. When you go out to meet a woman your end goal has to be more than delivering an opener or a routine. You end goal can be anything from getting a date to pulling her home but not delivering an opener or a routine.

I know one of you who is a real beginner is thinking but I am not even comfortable with opener so why should I go to the next step with mastering my opening. Very simple because you have already opened this girl or set of girls. Why would you walk away from her and open another girl when you can continue with her. You might do this because you fear you are not ready or because you do not feel confident.

You feel scared or not confident because you have not thought the process in advance. If you would have set your end goal to pull the girl home or get a date then you would have drawn a road map for all the steps needed. Then you would know exactly which direction to go after delivering your intended element. And who knows you might get a date out of your first set even if you have never opened a girl before. Why would you let it go? Who says you can't go on a date if you have not mastered the art of seduction.

When you go out next time to practice your intended element of the game push the set to the end goal after you have delivered your routine or whatever element you had in mind. Draw a road map from meeting a woman to reaching your end goal of getting her on a date or pulling her home. Please Please Please read the Social Mastery Book. I have laid all the steps and amazing techniques to accomplish what you want. 226 Pages and over three hours of video - That's a lot of information. You would never need any other product to learn how to attract women. Identify the steps of game from there, learn specific techniques then go out and push sets to the end.

Two things will happen either you will get your end goal or identify the area you need to work on to achieve your end goal.
Good Luck!

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