Do you pick a target?

Very often I observe that guys going into sets without selecting a target. Any girl who responds to them becomes their target. This is a horrible thing to do.

Most of the times it is the least attractive girl who ends up responding. By least attractive I do not mean just physical attractiveness. I mean least attractive by your standards whatever they may be. You then continue the set with her and wonder how you always end up with an average or a below average girl. She was not your type but you still continued that is why. The reason you hesitate to pick a target in advance is because you are not sure if the really hot one is going to talk to you and you do not want to get rejected.

By following this practice you are creating lot more problems for yourself:

• You are increasing your insecurity by telling yourself that the hot girl won't like you. If you really believe this, it is an inner game issue. Work on it. Make your self desirable. Dating and attracting women is an art. It is a skill. Just like you can earn a black belt with practice, you can learn to attract beautiful women with practice. However you have to be willing to get few bruises on the way.


• By settling for a less attractive woman or by compromising your standards you are hurting both yourself and the woman you end up spending time with. You know she is not your type and even if you get in a relation with her it won't go anywhere because you do not like her. So why waste your and her time. Now I am not suggesting to objectify women but don't be with her if you are really not that attracted to her.
  

Go and practice on the ones you really like. Don't be afraid to get rejected. Pay attention to your mistakes. Learn to calibrate and generate sexual tension. Master the steps of seduction from Social Mastery Book and put them to test. Practicing on the kind of girls you are attracted to is the only way you will improve.

Next time you go out you make sure you pick a target and run the attraction on her without any fear. Best case you will end up with her worst case you will master the skills to attract her kind down the road.